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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

13.06.2025 23:53

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

All the time i was locked up.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

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We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

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Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Ive learnt so much.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

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I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

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But ive been too sick for many years..

I know ,a lot about trauma.

He resisted the act ,that day.

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My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

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On the 31st of Jan this month .

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Why is there a "double standard" applied to sex between a dog and a human? Why is it that to many who are at least mildly okay with bestiality, a WOMAN having sex with a male dog is fine, but a guy with a female dog is not?

He was dying to do it , i knew.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

What are some possible reasons for an unfaithful spouse to not confess their affair to their partner and instead end it without telling them?

I think the readers, may guess!

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

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And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

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Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

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Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

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I was 9 years of age.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

When did bestiality first occur to you and how did it happen the first time? Was it a deliberate decision or it just happened and you allowed it?

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I was very sick at this time too.

What are the reasons why am I so tired before my period?

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

She wouldn,t have been !

What did i know ?

Why am I always so tired, no matter how much I sleep?

Put me off passion for life!!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

I waited trembling.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I could never make a relationship work though!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

But it wasn’t much.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I said to her

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

She found it foreign!.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I couldn’t, believe it.

I write beautiful poetry .

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I was seconnd youngest,

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I will be 64.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I don,t even have a pension.

(And it was in our own minds.)

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Who then, do I blame.?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

I never cut or harmed myself..

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

It was going to be , some day.

So, i spoilt her more .

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Especially a lifetime of it.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

I have no regrets .

Why did i forgive my father ?

Im still living with it.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

And i lived it daily.

We all went to grammer schools

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

But, we were locked up after school.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I was scared of men, in general

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

I had hoped to write a book about this .

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

My family never makes their pension either.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

He knew the spot.

Was to survive, this bastard.

My life is so biszare .

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

One cannot live in the past .

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Would this be the day?

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

We were not on the streets..

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

She was in good health!

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Comes on , in middle age.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

She loved him until the end.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

When she asked me how she looked .

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

She married twice! .

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

This is soul school!.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

So whats the point in blame.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!